Eve of CNY 2010

Eve of CNY was supposed to be a happy occasion. However, I have been very upset since 4pm today.

Around that time, we were all @ the living room preparing stuff for CNY. sis took out the clothings, which belongs to ah boy, in the washing machine because the machine had stopped going and she also wanted to wash our clothes.

Ah boy's gf saw that the clothes were removed from the machine and went to tell him about it, so he came out and asked who removed his bag of clothes from the machine. After that, he put them into the machine again. His gf then came out from the room and went to add softlan into the machine and sis commented softly about why she is washing the clothes twice and it waste water and electricity. I added that electricity is very expensive and they are using it w/o consideration because they are not contributing to the household. Upon hearing what we said, she went into the room and complained to my brother, so he came out of the room angrily and asked what did we tell his gf. We explained to him and even mom told him that electricity bills are going up these days. He raised his voice and told us off questioning why we are so concern with money. OF COURSE we are concerned with money! We are the ones who are working hard and contributing to the family. He is not contributing to anything, therefore, he is, OF COURSE NOT AT ALL CONCERNED with the increase in utility bill! He commented that I am so concerned about money and that's why I am FOREVER POOR! I told him whether or not I am poor is none of his business. He kept raising his voice and behaved in a gangsterism manner. How can I stand his attitude?! Mummy & sis asked me not to quarrel with him, I tried but he kept challenging me and asked me what I want now. While we were quarrelling, I told him, not happy, he is most welcome to leave the house. This was when the fight broke out. He held on to me, while i scratched hard on his chest, to throw me onto the floor. He used the chair and basin to throw at me (but failed because mummy & sis were shielding me). FUCKER! Exchange of vulgarities went on and more fights. I was so angry and aggitated that I told my mom that its either he go or i leave! and my bro kept challenging me to call for the police to chase him out -- he even said that he will only go if the police chase him out.

mummy, on the other hand, kept asking me to go into the room. At this instance, I realised that my mom and mavis was crying. Bastard! He kept challenging me and even when my mom brought me into the room, he chased over and kept challenging me. I asked him and that gal, in front of her, to get out!!!

In the midst of this fight, he kept questioning if I have ever treated him as my brother, he asked my mom if she has treated him as her son! He has got no brains.

He also kept saying that HE WILL ENSURE THAT I WILL NOT HAVE A PEACEFUL CNY ANNUALLY!!! -- This sounds like that old man's tone.

He also said that arent we from the same parents and why did I not treat him like my brother! == This sounds like that old man's tone too.

He also questioned why he is my brother and my daughter is not close to him! -- this sounds like the old man's tone as well.

From this entire quarrel, I have one belief -- That old man has done something and as a result, this is his behaviour!

While we were at the door of my room, his gf tried to pull him away while my sis and mom tried to shield me from him, he went to the extend of pushing my mom! FUCKER!

He pulled my hair hard and refused to let go. He tried to use his leg to kick me. I bited him hard on his arm too. Of course I am no angel. Whatever I did, I admit! BASTARD!

At the point when he pulled my hair and refused to let go, I squeezed his balls and refused to let go! FUCKER!

While all these were going on, at one point, my mom KNEEL DOWN and asked me not to move out.

I kept pulling my mom up and put her on the bed. That fucker went on to curse and swear at me. so did I!

My mom also told me that her 3rd finger was hurt and it was very painful. It swelled immediately.

When we were in the room, my mom also told me to bring her the phone and she wants to call for the police to ask him to leave.

The police took more than an hour to arrive.

When the police (a guy & a lady) were here. I was asked to go out and tell them what happened. I saw legs standing at the door (of that bastard's room)! I supposed they must be standing my the room to hear what's going on and if i had really called for the police since the door bell rang.

I briefly told the police what happened and she asked what do I want to do. Do I want to pursue the matter by sueing him and bringing up the matter to subordinate court? OR do I want to arrange for family counselling? and I am supposed to attend the counselling with him as well.

I realised that while I was in the room with my mom, he went out and used the chair and smashed the TV! Now my LCD is smashed! FUCKER!!!

He even had the cheek to open the door and asked me to leave the house during the quarrel!!!!!!!

I also remember him saying that I will lose my face and challenged me to go ahead to call the police. He's sooooo wrong. I will not feel shame to ask the police for help!

I was thinking if I shud ask for Police Protection Order. I had some bruises here and there on my arm. My right hand third finger was also hurt because the nails were bended outwards when he first slammed me onto the floor. It bleed but didn't break -- therefore it is very painful, wven when I bend my fingers.

after half an hr or so when beary called, then he knows about what happened. He was very angry and even swear at him. He even said that he wants to help me to throw him out.

I also told my mom that the police will not ask him to move out. In the end, he didn't move out too. He packed those stuff which we bought for him and threw them at the common corridor. -- this include the new jacket which we bought for him for christmas and the label was still intact.

Ever since he got together with this gal, his attitude has been very bad. He has not had once dine at home since he started going out with this ah lian gf. They isolated themselves from us. Apparently this ah lian gf is pretty rich. She bought alot of stuff and i also learnt from her blog (an hour or so ago) that she has another bf and he is in jail -- will be out on 20th!

Reunion dinner was spoilt. None of us have appetite.

LCD screen cracked. I can't invite my friends over to my house anymore. I BOUGHT THAT LCD TV with my own MONEY!!!! I was so tempted to go into his room and break his LCD TV as well. BASTARD!

My mom said he will move out soon and told my sis that if he were to pack his stuff, dun ask him where he will be staying or etc.. and dun need to ask him for the keys. we'll just change a lock so that he can't come back again. She also mentioned that she don't have a son.

I am not trying to get rid of him. As long as he do his part for the family, respect my mom and dun behave inconsiderately, i've got nothing against him. why did he have to behave like that? Why did he have to protect that ah lian to the extend that we can't even comment?

I also asked about the empty canned drinks. A big pack beside the dinning area is as if that area is a rubbish dump. Why he cant clear his stuff neat and bring out the unwanted stuff??? Sis and mom has already told him days ago about the empty cans but he did nothing to it! I commented that if he dun want, then i will throw them away. he then replied that all these are money. You try throwing my cans, i will throw ... out (i didn't hear him clearly but i guess he was saying my stuff). On that's the trigger point of the while fight!

I feel very upset and angry with myself for upsetting my mom and even causing her finger to hurt. Now her finger is swollen and bruised. I feel so useless. I even had to cause her to kneel at me. This is so unfilial. I even spoilt my family's cny.

beary asked if i wanna go out after my dinner. no mood. really no mood. sighz. I dun even want to talk to him in details of what had happened. I hope the quarrel will end here and no more trouble. I dun want to upset my mom again.