There's this saying: "forgive and forget". Sometimes, it is just not that easy. When someone did you wrong and you were hurt, how are you supposed to forgive and even forget? Even if we could forgive, it's definitely not easy to forget.
Yes, I posted an article on "Letting go" in Jun 09. I remembered what the article is all about and trying hard to practice it.
Someone did something that hurt Judy and after analysing the incident, Judy was sure that someone had did it to her on purpose and was very angry with someone, though she had no idea the ultimate purpose of someone's actions.
After sometime, Judy wanted to "let go" of this grudges but she just couldn't do it. She tried analysing it with herself and was positive about letting go but after rationale it with Evil Care Bear, the outcome will turn negative again. Evil Care Bear also highlighted that even if Judy decided to bury the hatch, her family is not going to accept someone again. and if her family cannot accept someone, she will ganna influence and not accept someone too.
Of course there are people who will persuade Judy to let go as they feel that it's no big deal. but then again, "You wouldn't know how painful it is when you aren't the one who feel the pinch!"
You can describe her as petty but when it concerns her family, she is unable to let go easily *Evil*
When Judy said "let go", she means just let things remain as usual and not hold it against someone anymore -- it does not mean being close again. Just ordinary friend. As for now, Judy is practically ignoring someone and even gets irritated at the sight of someone. *very unreasonable hor*
However, She believes that her god had given her some directions on letting go. There were some instances that god led her to the directions. Therefore, she also feel that it's time to let go. but how is she going to do it? how is Judy going to let go, as in how to accept someone as a friend again?
*Frown* Is she thinking too complex or she is just thinking it all in a wrong direction.
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